Social
How Singaporeans relate to each other — face, friendship, and social vibes.
208 words
- abang noun
Technically means 'older brother' in Malay, but in the streets, it's the ultimate sign of respect for any Malay man you encounter. Whether you're ordering your daily roti prata or bumping into a friendly neighbour, calling him 'abang' makes things instantly smoother and warmer.
- abuden exclamation
The go-to comeback when someone asks you a question with a super obvious answer. It’s basically 'Duh' but with a lot more local sass and a judgmental side-eye included for free.
- act ah beng verb
To act ah beng means putting on a performative, loud, and slightly aggressive tough-guy attitude, usually involving flashy clothes, swaggering walks, and a specific brand of bravado. It’s for folks who clearly aren't actually part of a secret society but want everyone in the CCK bus interchange to think they’re the ones to watch out for.
- act ah lian verb
To put on an exaggerated persona of an 'Ah Lian'—that stereotypically loud, colourful, and feisty girl who loves heavy makeup and even heavier attitude. It’s usually used when someone is trying way too hard to look tough or street-smart when everyone knows they’re actually soft inside.
- act blur verb
To pretend you don't know what's going on or to act completely clueless to avoid responsibility or awkward questions. It’s that masterclass in making your eyes glaze over just enough to look innocent while hiding the fact that you know exactly what’s happening.
- act cute verb
To intentionally put on an exaggerated, baby-like, or overly wide-eyed persona to get your way or just to fish for compliments. It’s like turning the ‘innocent’ dial up to eleven when you know very well you aren’t that clueless.
- act cute buay cute phrase
This is what you say when someone is trying way too hard to bat their eyelids or put on a baby voice, but it honestly just makes everyone want to look away. It’s the ultimate reality check for when the 'innocent' act is failing spectacularly and becoming more annoying than adorable.
- act dao verb
To act cool, aloof, or like you’re way too good for the people around you. It’s that exact vibe someone gives off when they treat you like they're a celebrity and you’re just a random fan, even though they’re probably just sitting at the same void deck as you.
- act lian buay lian phrase
Describes someone who is desperately trying to pull off the 'Ah Lian' aesthetic or attitude, but failing miserably because it just doesn't fit their personality. It’s that awkward moment when someone is being loud, aggressive, or overly 'street' but you can tell they were probably a straight-A student who’s never stepped foot in a karaoke lounge in their life.
- ah beng noun
Think of a guy with heavily gelled hair, maybe a tight polo tee, and a loud personality that screams 'I spend my nights revving motorbikes in the carpark.' It’s a stereotypical archetype for a young, unrefined Chinese man who acts tough, loves flashy gold accessories, and probably dropped out of school to hang with the boys.
- ah boy noun
A standard, friendly way to call any young man or little boy, even if you don't know his name. It carries a mix of affection and that classic 'ah-uncle' vibe where everyone feels like family.
- ah girl noun
A friendly, slightly patronizing way to address a young woman or a little girl. You'll usually hear this from an auntie at the market or an older relative—it's affectionate, but definitely reminds you who holds the seniority
- ah kong noun
Literally means grandfather, but use it with caution—when we talk about the government's money or policies, we say it's 'Ah Kong's money' as if the state is this all-providing, slightly stern patriarch. You might also hear it used as a respectful, if cheeky, way to address an older gentleman at the coffee shop.
- ah lian noun
Think of her as the female equivalent of an Ah Beng. She’s the girl with the heavily bleached hair, the oversized lashes, and the signature 'don't-mess-with-me' attitude, often seen hanging out at the neighbourhood mall with a group of friends who dress exactly like her.
- ah ma noun
The endearing term for your grandmother, or any elderly auntie you want to show respect to at the market. Call a stranger 'Ah Ma' and you instantly sound like a local who knows how to treat his elders with love.
- ah pek noun
A respectful, slightly informal term for an older man. You'll usually see them at the kopitiam with a newspaper in one hand and a kopi-o in the other, living their best retired life.
- ah seng noun
The quintessential 'bad boy' next door who dropped out of school to hang out at the arcade. He’s usually seen with gelled hair, a tight polo tee, and a loud personality, often acting like he owns the neighbourhood. Think of him as the male equivalent of an Ah Lian—loud, unrefined, but somehow part of the local scenery.
- aiseh exclamation
The go-to reaction when someone surprises you with a pleasant favour, a massive discount, or just a legendary spread of food. It’s that half-shy, half-impressed sound you make, like a modest 'I see!' that turned into a full-blown hype moment.
- already particle
The multi-purpose Swiss Army knife of Singlish. You slap this at the end of a sentence to show that something is done, finished, or that a situation has shifted, like when you've finally reached your limit or a task is finally off your plate.
- also can phrase
The ultimate multi-purpose phrase for when you’re easy-going and down for whatever. It’s what you say when someone gives you a choice, or someone asks if a plan works for you, and you genuinely don't want to make a fuss.
- amdk (ang moh dua kee) noun
A derogatory slang used to describe a White man who enjoys a level of privilege or 'star treatment' in Singapore simply for being White. It highlights the perceived double standard where these men get a free pass for behaviors that would be heavily critiqued if done by a local.
- angkat bola verb
To flatter someone shamelessly or 'carry their balls' just to get into their good books. Usually used for that colleague who always agrees with the boss, even when the boss is clearly wrong.
- anot particle
This one is the classic Singlish shorthand for checking if your friend is paying attention or agreeing with your logic. It is basically the ultimate 'right?' or 'isn't it?', used at the end of a sentence to demand a confirmation.
- anyhow adverb
Describes doing something in a haphazard, messy, or completely thoughtless manner. If you're building a shelf and just nailing boards together without measuring, that's definitely anyhow work.
- atas adjective
Describes someone or something that's a bit posh, high-class, or fancy-schmancy. It’s when you swap your five-dollar hawker kopi for a ten-volt artisan latte, or talk with an accent that sounds like you spend all your holidays in Europe.
- auntie noun
More than just your mother’s sister, this is the universal title for any mature woman in Singapore. Whether she’s frying your char kway teow or yelling at you for standing on the yellow line, she is the undisputed backbone of every neighbourhood.
- banana noun
A cheeky way to describe a Chinese person who is 'yellow' on the outside but 'white' on the inside. It’s used for someone who’s totally Westernized, speaks only English, and maybe thinks chopsticks are just for decoration.
- beng noun
Describes a certain type of local lad who rocks spiky, gel-drenched hair, tight shirts, and maybe a bit too much gold jewelry. It's not just a look; it's a whole vibe—think loud motorbikes, flashy fashion, and a 'don't-mess-with-me' swagger that hides a surprisingly loyal heart.
- beo verb
To sneak a look or peer discreetly at someone or something you’re not supposed to be staring at. Usually involves stretching your neck or using your peripheral vision like a covert operative.
- black face noun
When someone gives you a "black face," they're showing you their unhappiness or displeasure with a stony, unsmiling scowl. It's that look people give when they are clearly not in the mood for your nonsense, or if you've accidentally offended them and they want you to know about it without saying a word.
- blank face noun
That specific look someone gives you when they have absolutely no clue what you're talking about, like their brain just went for a coffee break and left the office empty. It's the face of pure, unadulterated 'huh?' when you're trying to explain a complex joke or a simple instruction.
- blur adjective
When someone is 'blur', they’re basically walking through life with the lights on but nobody’s home. It doesn't mean they're stupid, just that they’re completely oblivious to what’s happening in front of them or totally out of sync with the situation at hand.
- blur like sotong phrase
Describes someone who is completely clueless, slow on the uptake, or looking totally lost in a situation. It’s that exact look someone has when they’ve been told the same thing five times and the information still hasn't landed.
- blur sotong noun
This refers to someone who is hopelessly clueless, drifting through life like a squid in murky water. If your friend is constantly looking for glasses that are sitting on their own head, or misses the obvious punchline every single time, they are a total blur sotong.
- bo chup adjective
The ultimate state of zen indifference. When someone is 'bo chup', they’ve decided that whatever drama or mess is happening around them is simply not their problem, and they really couldn't be bothered to care even if they tried.
- bo jio phrase
The classic cry of the person who found out their friends went for mookata or clubbing without them. It's that mock-offended way of saying, 'Wah, all of you went out but you never call me, ah?'
- bo liao adjective
Describes someone who is so free and bored that they end up doing something totally useless or ridiculous just to kill time. If your friend spends three hours trying to stack M&Ms into a skyscraper, you tell them, 'Wah lau, so bo liao!'
- bo pian phrase
The exact feeling when you're stuck in a situation you absolutely hate but have zero power to change. It’s that resigned shrug you give when the bus doesn't come or you have to work on a weekend—no point fighting it, just accept it.
- borrow me phrase
Locally, this is the classic 'Singlish-ism' where we swap 'lend' for 'borrow'. It’s an instruction that sounds like you’re asking for a favour, but it’s gramatically upside-down—you're actually asking the other person to lend their stuff to you.
- bto noun
The ultimate Singaporean rite of passage for young couples. It’s a government housing scheme where you ballot for a flat that hasn't even been built yet, then wait years for it to finish. In local speak, if you ask your partner to 'BTO', you’re basically proposing marriage, just with more paperwork and HDB eligibility rules.
- buat bodoh verb
This is when you know exactly what’s going on, but you choose to ignore it—the ultimate strategy to avoid extra work or awkward social situations. It's that classic 'I didn't see anything' look you give when the boss asks who left the meeting room in a mess.
- buay song adjective
Describes that specific feeling when you are thoroughly miffed, irritated, or just plain dissatisfied with a situation. It’s the vibe you give off when someone cuts your queue or the coffee shop uncle serves your Milo lukewarm. If said with an aggressive tone and a chin-tilt, it’s basically an invitation to a scrap.
- buay tahan phrase
The ultimate expression of reaching your breaking point. Whether it's the unbearable humidity, a queue that refuses to move, or a person testing your patience, it's the moment you just cannot endure it any longer.
- by right phrase
It’s how we say things *should* happen in an ideal world, based on rules or common sense. If someone tells you something is 'by right,' they’re pointing out that reality has currently gone rogue and deviated from the proper procedure.
- can verb
The Swiss Army knife of Singaporean conversation. It’s a versatile little word that functions as a 'yes,' an 'okay,' an 'I’m on board with that,' or even a question asking if something is possible. If you say it with a sharp, quick clip, it’s an agreement; elongate the 'n' and lift your pitch at the end, and you’re asking for permission or confirmation.
- can also phrase
The Swiss Army knife of Singaporean agreement. It’s what you say when you’re easygoing, flexible, or just want to politely indicate that a suggestion—while maybe not your first choice—is perfectly acceptable.
- can anot phrase
A two-in-one punch used to ask, 'Is this acceptable?' or 'Does this work, or is it a disaster?' It’s the ultimate vibe check for everything from outfit choices to whether your boss will accept your late report.
- can is can phrase
A way of saying 'it's technically possible, but don't expect miracles.' It acknowledges that something falls within the realm of possibility while subtly hinting that it’s far from the ideal or most efficient way to do things.
- cannot adverb
More than just a negation, this is the ultimate Singaporean 'stop.' It acts as a polite but firm veto, a declaration of incompetence, or a shorthand for 'that's simply not allowed here.' Say it with a sharp, rising tone and you've got the power to shut down any ridiculous request in an instant.
- cari pasal verb
This is what you say when someone is acting like a champion stirrer or looking for a fight where none exists. If your friend decides to insult his blur-sotong boss for no reason, he is definitely cari pasal.
- cari trouble verb
To intentionally provoke, stir up drama, or act in a way that is bound to get you into hot water. When you poke the hornet's nest just for the sake of seeing what happens, you are officially cari trouble.
- carry balls verb
To behave like a desperate bootlicker just to get on your boss's good side. It’s that cringey act of showering someone with excessive flattery or doing unnecessary favors, just hoping for a promotion or a freebie.
- catch no ball phrase
This is what you say when you have absolutely zero clue what someone is rambling about. It’s that blank, glassy-eyed look you give when the instructions went over your head like a seagull over a jetty.
- chao Ah Lian noun
An expression used to describe a woman who is perceived as unrefined, loud, or tacky. It carries a heavy dose of sass and disapproval, often directed at someone whose fashion choices or behaviour follow a specific 'loud' suburban stereotype.
- chap noun
It works two ways: either as the tasty gravy or sauces you douse your rice in, or as a way to tell someone to buzz off when they're being too nosy. If someone is trying to poke their nose into your business, you tell them, 'Don't chap lah!'—meaning don't interfere or don't bother.
- chey exclamation
The sound you make when someone tries to impress you with something absolutely underwhelming. It’s that sharp, unimpressed sigh that lets everyone know you were expecting magic but got a damp firecracker instead.
- chio bu noun
This is how we refer to an especially attractive or pretty girl. It’s the highest compliment you can give someone’s looks at the hawker centre, but don't go throwing it around too loosely unless you want to sound like a sleazy uncle.
- chiong verb
To charge forward with maximum intensity, whether you're racing for a seat on the MRT, finishing a project at 2 AM, or hitting the dance floor at Zouk. It’s that unstoppable, slightly chaotic energy of going all-in and putting in 110% effort, even if you’re half-dead from exhaustion.
- chop chop adverb
The ultimate call to action when you're waiting for somebody to stop lollygagging. Use it when the bus is coming, your food is getting cold, or your friend is taking forever to decide what to order at the hawker centre.
- chope verb
When you're at a crowded hawker centre and you spy the last empty table, you chup it quick before someone else swoops in — usually by dumping your packet of tissue or umbrella on the seat so everyone knows it's taken.
- coffee shop noun
The heart and soul of the neighbourhood, this is a semi-open-air food centre where you find hawker stalls serving everything from chicken rice to wanton mee. It’s the default gathering spot where uncle is reading his paper, students are hogging tables to study, and everyone is bonding over a cup of kopi-o.
- confirm plus chop phrase
The ultimate way to say something is 100% true, guaranteed, with no room for debate. It's like putting a physical stamp of approval on a fact because you’ve checked it, double-checked it, and are ready to bet your lunch on it.
- dah adverb
It's the ultimate 'already'—the verbal equivalent of throwing your hands up in resignation or finality. Whether you've finished your project or given up on a hopeless situation, one 'dah' covers it all with a mix of exhaustion and relief.
- diam verb
A short, sharp command to shut up or stay absolutely still. You’ll hear it from an annoyed auntie at the market or, more sternly, from a sergeant in the army when he wants total silence.
- die liao phrase
This is what you say when you've well and truly messed up and there's no turning back. It's the feeling of watching your boss walk in while you're still on your third cup of kopi and haven't started your report yet. Game over, man.
- don't play play phrase
A warning to take things seriously or to respect someone’s hidden skills. It’s the verbal equivalent of a side-eye when someone thinks they can outsmart you, but they really, really can't.
- donkey years phrase
Whenever you’ve been waiting for something that feels like it’s been delayed since the dawn of time, you say it’s been 'donkey years.' It’s the ultimate way to complain about a long wait without actually checking your watch.
- double confirm verb
When you absolutely, positively need to make sure someone isn't bluffing or that the plans are set in stone. It’s like a regular confirmation, but with extra Singaporean insurance to stop things from falling apart later.
- east side best side phrase
The ultimate battle cry of anyone living in Katong, Tampines, or Bedok. It’s a cheeky way of claiming that the east is superior to the west, typically because of the abundance of late-night supper spots, the proximity to the airport, and the general 'chill' beach vibes.
- eat air phrase
It’s a funny one because it has two totally opposite meanings. It can mean you're going for a breezy joyride or a holiday to refresh your brain, but if your bank account is empty and you've got no cash for a meal, you’re basically 'eating air' to survive. Context is king here—you don't want to get mixed up when your boss asks you why you skipped lunch.
- eh exclamation
The Swiss Army knife of local conversation. Depending on your tone, it can be a friendly 'hey', a sharp 'watch it!', a confused 'huh?', or a disappointed 'really, man?'. Use it to grab attention at the coffee shop or to quietly judge someone who cut the queue.
- eye power verb
This refers to the incredible 'talent' of standing around and watching everyone else sweat while you do absolutely nothing. It’s like you’re trying to telekinetically finish the work just by staring at it, but somehow, the heavy lifting just doesn't get done.
- father mother die (fmd) phrase
A very crude shorthand for hurling insults at someone’s parents. It’s basically the local way of saying 'your parents are dead' as a generic, nasty curse when you’re absolutely furious. Definitely don't use this unless you want a punch in the face.
- fly aeroplane (fly me aeroplane) verb
To 'fly aeroplane' is when you promise to meet someone or show up for something, but you just disappear without warning like a ghost. It’s like booking a flight to nowhere, leaving your poor date or friend standing there waiting like a statue at the MRT station.
- fuck care verb
The ultimate way to broadcast that you have absolutely zero bandwidth for someone's nonsense. It’s like a 'do not disturb' sign for your brain; perfect for when you’re done arguing and just want to tap out of the drama.
- gg exclamation
Short for 'good game', but in Singapore, it’s rarely about sportsmanship. It’s mostly used when you're royally toast or caught in a hopeless situation. If you forget your homework or get hit by a sudden downpour without an umbrella, just sigh and say 'gg'—it's over, lah.
- gila adjective
Describes someone acting totally out of their mind or behaving in a way that defies common sense. It is the go-to word when your friend decides to start jogging at 2 AM or tries to argue with a taxi uncle about the price.
- give face phrase
To give someone 'face' is to do them a solid by preserving their reputation or dignity in front of others, especially when they’ve messed up and really don’t deserve the help. It’s like keeping a poker face for your boss when he says something silly in a meeting so he doesn't look like a total clown.
- go fly kite phrase
The polite version of telling someone to get lost or take their nonsense elsewhere. It’s perfect for when someone is being a nuisance and you really don't have the patience to entertain them, so you invite them to go chase a hobby instead of bothering you.
- gone case adjective
Describes someone or something that's totally finished, beyond saving, or just completely hopeless. When you see a friend failing a math test or a phone screen totally shattered, that's a gone case.
- gong hei fat choy phrase
The go-to greeting for Chinese New Year, delivered with a smile while you're grabbing those pineapple tarts. It’s basically wishing someone a massive dose of prosperity and good fortune for the year ahead.
- hao lian adjective
This is what you call that person who loves showing off their new Rolex or keeps reminding everyone about their big bonus. It describes someone who is excessively proud, arrogant, or just plain 'full of themselves'—basically, they love the attention and want to save face at all costs.
- heck adverb
Think of this as the ultimate 'I give up' or 'whatever.' It’s the linguistic equivalent of throwing your hands in the air when things go wrong, but with a cheeky, couldn't-care-less attitude that says you’re moving on to better things.
- heck care verb
This is how you say you officially have zero bandwidth for someone’s drama or a minor disaster. It’s the verbal equivalent of a shrug when you decide that stressing yourself out is just not worth the calories.
- helper noun
The go-to term for a live-in domestic worker who practically keeps the whole Singaporean household running. Think of her as the unsung hero who manages the cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids, essentially keeping the peace while everyone else is busy at work or school.
- hentam verb
To whack something with full force, or to just do something blindly without a plan. If you're stressed and just start typing an email without reading the instructions, you are 'hentaming' it. It’s that beautiful Singaporean chaos of throwing caution to the wind and hoping for the best.
- ho adjective
Essentially the Swiss Army knife of agreement. It means 'good', 'okay', or 'all set', but most often it’s used as a tag question at the end of a sentence—like saying 'right?' or 'got it?'—to make sure the other person is actually keeping up with your life.
- hor particle
The ultimate social tool for checking if your friend is actually listening. You tack it onto the end of a sentence when you want to confirm someone agrees with you, or use it as a pause to make sure everyone is still on the same page before you drop the next bit of gossip.
- jia you exclamation
The ultimate multi-purpose cheerleader in your pocket. It’s what you shout when your friend is halfway up a Bukit Timah hill, finishing a massive project, or just trying to survive a bad Monday; it translates to 'add oil' to keep the engine running.
- jialat adjective
The ultimate way to say something is seriously messed up or totally ruined. Whether you forgot your wallet at the dinner table or you're staring at a massive deadline, if you say 'jialat,' people know you're in trouble.
- jiayous exclamation
The go-to battle cry when you need to give someone a mental push or a boost of encouragement. It’s like saying 'keep going!' or 'don't give up!' when life feels like an uphill climb at the gym or a giant pile of paperwork.
- jio verb
To ask someone to come along, whether it’s for a coffee, a movie, or just to hang out. It’s light, casual, and usually implies that your company is genuinely wanted for whatever mischief or makan you’re planning.
- kaki noun
Your partner-in-crime for any specific activity. Whether it's your mahjong kaki, makan kaki, or hiking kaki, they’re the people you call when you want to do something fun and don't want to go solo.
- kampung spirit noun
It’s that warm, fuzzy feeling of looking out for your neighbours like they're family. Think of it as the unwritten rule where we share our food, watch each other's kids, and gather at the void deck just because we know everyone belongs to the same community.
- kan cheong adjective
Describes that classic Singaporean state of being perpetually kiasu and flustered, like you’ve got a tight deadline for a report or you’re the first one running when the MRT doors start beeping. It’s the feeling of panic when things aren't moving fast enough for your liking.
- kantoi verb
To kena caught red-handed when you're doing something you shouldn't be doing. It’s that exact moment your cover is blown and you look like a total blur king, whether it's skipping work or hiding a secret stash of snacks.
- kasi verb
It’s basically the Malay word for 'give', but in Singlish, we use it to talk about giving someone a chance, a break, or a 'helping hand'. You’ll hear it a lot when someone is trying to negotiate for a bit of leeway, like 'kasi chance lah!'.
- kasi chance verb
To cut someone some slack or give them a break when they're failing miserably. Use this when you decide not to absolutely destroy your friend in a game of FIFA, or when you let someone off the hook for a minor mistake.
- kaypoh adjective
Describes someone who just can’t help but poke their nose into business that has absolutely nothing to do with them. It’s that aunty at the market who asks why you aren't married yet, or the colleague who suddenly appears at your desk the moment you start whispering.
- ke yi adjective
Technically means 'can' or 'allowed', but in the streets, it's the ultimate shrug of approval. If someone asks if the food is good or if the plan works, you say 'ke yi' to mean it's decent, passable, or just plain 'not bad lah'.
- kena verb
Kena acts like a magnet for bad luck or unwanted attention. It’s that sting you feel when you ‘get’ something you didn’t ask for, like a fine, a scolding, or a bout of food poisoning.
- kena makan verb
To get 'kena makan' is to be completely overwhelmed, outmanoeuvred, or taken for a ride. Whether it's losing a negotiation or just getting steamrolled by a more aggressive uncle in the queue, you've essentially been 'swallowed whole' by the situation.
- khao peh khao bu verb
An aggressive way to tell someone to stop their incessant whining or dramatic complaining. It’s the ultimate shut-down for when someone is making a mountain out of a molehill and you really couldn't care less.
- kor kor noun
The go-to term for an older brother, but honestly, it covers any slightly older guy you want to sound sweet to. You'll hear it at home with siblings, or from aunties at the market trying to soften you up before asking for the bill.
- ktv noun
It’s basically karaoke, but for us, it’s a whole lifestyle sport. Whether you’re belting out Jay Chou anthems in a fancy lounge or crying through sentimental Canto-pop in a cramped room with your kakis, it’s the ultimate way to de-stress.
- kuay noun
A crude, derogatory term for a sex worker. You won't hear polite company using this, so unless you're looking for a quick way to sound like a sleazy person, it's best to leave this one out of your vocabulary entirely.
- lan lan suck thumb phrase
This is what you say when life gives you a hard knock and you have absolutely zero power to change it. It is that resigned feeling of 'nothing I can do, just sit here and suck thumb'—usually while feeling a bit salty about the whole situation.
- lao gong noun
The standard way to address your husband in Chinese. It's essentially 'hubby'—sweet and domestic, but nowadays you'll also hear it used in the LGBTQ community to refer to the 'top' partner in a relationship.
- lao jiao noun
This is the person who has seen it all and done it all. You don't need to teach them anything because they already know the shortcuts, the traps, and exactly how the system works.
- lao po noun
This is the classic way to refer to your wife. It’s affectionate but also carries that seasoned, 'we’ve been through it all' energy of a long-term partner who definitely runs the household budget.
- leh particle
The ultimate multi-purpose flavour enhancer for your sentences. It’s like a verbal nudge that softens a statement, adds a bit of contemplation, or gently pushes someone to see your point of view.
- leng lui noun
This is your go-to term for a pretty girl or a good-looking woman. You'll hear it used when guys are trying to be smooth at the hawker centre or just pointing out someone who's looking extra sharp that day.
- lepak verb
The ultimate art of doing absolutely nothing while feeling absolutely zero guilt. Whether you're sitting on a plastic stool at the void deck or just wasting time at the mall, lepak is that sweet, carefree state of just hanging around.
- lesser adjective
Technically just the comparator for 'little', but in Singlish, we use it to describe someone or something that's just not quite up to par. It’s that polite-but-deadly way of saying someone is a bit 'off' or doesn't have the same level of capability as the rest of the crew.
- liddat adverb
This is just 'like that' running a marathon and catching its breath. We use it to describe everything from how to fold your economic bee hoon to pointing out someone’s weird behavior, typically capped off with an expressive 'liddat can or not?'
- lim kopi verb
Literally just having a cuppa, but in Singapore, it’s a total spectrum. It can mean a chill catch-up with your kakis, but if the boss or the police 'invite' you for kopi, run—that means you’re in for a very uncomfortable, high-stakes interrogation.
- lobang noun
Think of it as your secret key to the treasure chest. It’s an insider tip, a golden contact, or that sweet discount nobody else knows about. If you've got 'lobang', you've got the inside track to get things done, get things cheaper, or get things faster.
- lor particle
The multi-purpose seasoning for your sentences, used to signal that something is obvious, inevitable, or just a bit of a 'what to do' resignation. It’s like ending a sentence with a shrug—if people don't get it, that's their problem, not yours.
- lose face phrase
To lose face is to suffer a major blow to your dignity or standing in front of others. It’s that cringey, sinking feeling when you’ve been caught out or put in a spot where you just can’t 'tapao' your pride home anymore.
- mai particle
The multi-purpose 'no thanks' or 'don't' that saves you from everything from unwanted hawker calories to awkward invitations. It acts as a polite yet firm shield when you really, really aren't keen on something.
- mai la phrase
The polite but firm way to turn something down. Think of it as the ultimate 'No thanks, don't bother'—whether your friend is offering you another beer after your fourth one, or a stranger is pushing a flyer into your hand at the MRT station.
- makan verb
The golden word for all things food-related—whether you're grabbing a quick prata at 2 AM or having a proper feast. It's so versatile it doubles as a verb for eating and a noun for the meal itself, basically the heartbeat of a Singaporean's social life.
- makcik noun
Technically refers to a middle-aged Malay woman, but in Singapore, it’s the default sign of respect for any auntie figure you meet. Use it when ordering your regular teh at the kopitiam or asking for directions; it’s warm, polite, and shows you’ve got good manners.
- malu adjective
This is that sharp, sinking feeling you get when you’ve done something utterly bodoh in public, or when your friend acts so kiasu that you wish you could just vanish into the floor. It’s more than just being shy; it’s that mortifying, soul-crushing wave of embarrassment that makes you want to crawl under the hawker centre table.
- mamak stall noun
The ultimate late-night sanctuary where you go to satisfy your prata and teh tarik cravings when the rest of the world is asleep. It's not just a place to eat; it's the unofficial community hall for football fans and students pulling all-nighters.
- manja adjective
Usually used to describe someone—often a kid or a significant other—who is acting extra needy, clingy, or sweet just to get some attention or a little pampering. It’s that soft, cutesy vibe where someone wants to be fussed over, like a cat rubbing against your leg when it wants treats.
- mata noun
The local way to refer to the police. It’s got that slightly mischievous, 'watch out, the authorities are nearby' vibe—usually whispered when you see a patrol car or an enforcement officer walking through the hawker centre.
- means what phrase
A quintessential Singaporean comeback used when you find someone’s behaviour or statement utterly baffling. It’s not just asking for a dictionary definition; it’s a skeptical challenge that basically says, 'What on earth are you trying to achieve here?'
- merlion noun
Technically, it’s our national mascot with a fish tail and a lion head, but in your drunken uncle’s vocabulary, it means to projectile vomit. You’ll hear it most often outside a club at 3 AM when someone’s had one too many Tiger beers and decides to pay the pavement a visit.
- minah noun
Originally just a common Malay girl's name, but in local slang, it’s evolved into a colorful label for a specific subculture of Malay girls. While some use it casually to mean 'a girl,' it often carries a cheeky stereotype about style, attitude, or hanging out with the boys at the void deck. Use with caution though, because depending on who you’re talking to, it can sound a bit dismissive or biased.
- more better adjective
Technically incorrect English, but spiritually sound. It’s an emphatic way of saying something is vastly superior or vastly preferred, usually adding a touch of comic intensity to show just how much you really, really like it.
- never eat rice phrase
A sarcastic way to tell someone they have zero energy or are acting like they're about to faint. It's the classic 'you look like you haven't eaten in three days' joke, usually aimed at friends who are being overly dramatic or lazy.
- nn exclamation
Depending on who you’re talking to, this is either a cheeky way to say 'yes' or 'noted', or a slightly dismissive 'yeah, sure' when you can't be bothered. Keep an eye on the tone; if someone says it with a rising pitch, they’re actually confused or questioning you, not agreeing.
- no face noun
To lose your 'no face' is to suffer a total social wipeout. It’s that cringey moment when your reputation hits rock bottom, usually because you kena caught red-handed doing something stupid or embarrassing in front of everyone.
- no need phrase
This is your multi-purpose shield against unnecessary chores, extra rice portions, or unsolicited advice. It’s the ultimate polite-but-firm decliner that saves you from awkward social commitments or being pressured into doing something you really don't want to do.
- no standard adjective
Describes something or someone that is totally subpar, pathetic, or just plain embarrassing. If your friend brings you to a food court and the chicken rice is dry and sad, you look at him and say, 'Wah, this one really no standard lah.'
- noe particle
A casual way to say 'you know' or 'get it?'. We usually tack this at the end of a sentence like a rhetorical nudge to make sure the other person is keeping up with our logic.
- not here not there phrase
Describes something that just doesn’t make the cut—it’s neither one thing nor the other, lacking focus or quality. It’s that awkward feeling when an outfit is almost stylish but misses the mark, or a plan that’s too vague to be useful.
- now then phrase
This is how you tell someone they're fashionably late—by about three years. It’s the ultimate sarcastic comeback when someone finally does what they were supposed to do ages ago, dripping with that 'you sure took your sweet time' energy.
- oei exclamation
The multi-purpose verbal sharp-elbow you use to poke someone’s attention. It ranges from a casual 'hey you' to a heated 'what do you think you’re doing?' depending on how much grit you put into your voice.
- old bird noun
An 'old bird' is someone who has been around the block enough times to know exactly how the system works. It’s the seasoned veteran who doesn't get rattled because they’ve survived the chaos a thousand times before.
- one kind adjective
Describes someone or something that acts completely bizarre, unreasonable, or just plain weird. If your colleague suddenly starts wearing sunglasses indoors while reciting poetry, you'd look at them and say, 'Wah, this guy really one kind.'
- onz adjective
The ultimate seal of approval. When you say 'onz', you're locked in, committed, and ready for whatever plan is on the table—whether it's late-night supper or a sudden hiking trip.
- padan muka phrase
The classic way to say 'serves you right' when someone gets what they deserve after doing something silly or wrong. It’s that little bit of satisfying bluntness—often said with a smirk—after your friend trips over their own ego.
- paiseh adjective
The Swiss Army knife of awkward situations. You use it when you're genuinely sorry, but also when you're just feeling a bit shy or embarrassed about an unglamorous moment. It’s that polite, humble 'oops' you say when you accidentally squeeze past someone in a narrow hawker centre aisle.
- pakcik noun
A respectful way to address an older Malay gentleman, even if he's a complete stranger pulling his satay cart. Think of it as the Malay equivalent of 'Uncle'—it's polite, friendly, and carries a nice sense of community respect.
- paynow verb
The national default for 'let me settle you'. It's that instant bank transfer we use for everything, from splitting a meal at the hawker centre to buying a second-hand item, usually accompanied by a flurry of QR code scanning.
- piak verb
The sound something makes when it hits flat—like a wet rag on the floor or a palm meeting a cheek. These days, the youth use it as a cheeky, hush-hush way to describe hanky-panky, so maybe don’t use it in front of your grandmother unless you want to see her look very confused.
- piak piak verb
An onomatopoeic term that mimics the sound of skin hitting skin. It’s the cheeky, low-key way locals refer to someone having sex without needing a formal or awkward conversation.
- play play adjective
When you’re not taking things seriously and just messing around for the sake of it. It’s like doing a job with half-hearted effort or goofing off when you should be focused.
- prc noun
Technically the acronym for the People's Republic of China, but used on the ground to refer to someone who recently moved to Singapore from mainland China. It's often used as a shorthand, but be careful—depending on your tone and who you're talking to, it can sound quite dismissive or loaded with social baggage.
- rabak adjective
Describes a situation that has gone completely haywire, or someone who is looking absolutely wrecked after a long night out. When things are rabak, there is no coming back from the mess—you just watch the chaos unfold and sigh, 'steady lah.'
- sabo verb
To 'sabo' someone is to deliberately mess up their plans, stitch them up, or throw them under the bus for a laugh or out of malice. It’s that one friend who makes you late for a date or the colleague who hides the stapler right when you’re rushing to finish a report.
- sabo king noun
The ultimate mischief-maker or troublemaker who lives to create chaos for everyone else. Whether they’re 'accidentally' pushing you into a puddle or setting you up for a public scolding, you can always count on them to be the anchor of any disaster.
- salah adjective
This is your go-to word when someone is talking nonsense or has got their facts totally messed up. It’s the ultimate ‘oops, you tripped’ of the conversational world, delivered with a bit of exasperated finality.
- same same phrase
Refers to two things that are practically identical, usually implying that an 'upgrade' or 'alternative' is actually just the same thing in a different coat of paint. You’ll hear this a lot at the wet market or when you're comparing two knock-off bags; it's the Singaporean way of saying 'don't bluff me, they're the same'.
- same same but different phrase
It’s how we describe two things that look identical at a quick glance, but actually have a secret catch or a tiny tweak. Think about buying a 'branded' bag from the night market—it looks the part, but the stitching tells a different story.
- save face verb
To maintain your dignity or avoid public embarrassment, usually by smoothing over a mistake so everyone can pretend it didn't happen. It's the ultimate social glue in Singapore; sometimes you let someone off the hook just to keep the peace and keep things polite.
- sayang noun
It’s a word that wears two hats. Usually, it’s a sweet, affectionate term you use for your partner or a kid, but it can also be a wistful sigh when something goes to waste. If you drop your chicken rice on the floor, you don't say 'how regrettable'—you just let out a heavy 'sayang ah!'
- see how phrase
The ultimate Singaporean non-committal answer. It’s what you say when you don’t want to reject someone outright but aren’t ready to commit to a plan just yet, keeping your options open until the last possible second.
- sekali adverb
Sekali is our favourite way to express a sudden twist of fate or a 'what if' scenario that usually catches you off guard. We use it when we’re contemplating a risky gamble or worrying that some disaster might just suddenly happen out of nowhere.
- shake leg verb
To sit around completely idle, often while others are busy working hard. It paints a funny mental picture of someone chilling so much that their only 'exertion' is swinging their dangling leg while they wait for their tea or a paycheck.
- shuai ge noun
The ultimate compliment for a chap who looks like he just stepped out of a Mandopop music video. Usually used by aunties at the hawker centre to make you feel like a million bucks when you're just there to buy chicken rice, but works for your mates too if they actually put effort into their hair.
- sia suay adjective
This one is the ultimate way to describe being a total embarrassment or a walking disaster. It’s what you say when someone does something so painfully 'paiseh' that it makes everyone else look bad just by standing near them.
- siam verb
To 'siam' is to dodge, bail, or scramble out of the way before things get messy. Whether it’s dodging a wet patch on the floor or bolting the moment your boss asks for volunteers on a Friday evening, it’s the art of tactical disappearance.
- sian adjective
The ultimate expression of existential fatigue. It’s that deep, soul-crushing feeling when you’re stuck in a three-hour meeting or staring at a rainstorm when you really wanted to go to the beach.
- siao adjective
The go-to word when someone is acting absolutely bonkers or out of their mind. You'll hear it used as a casual insult, a warning to stay away, or just a genuine expression of shock at someone's questionable life choices.
- sibeh adverb
Think of this as the ultimate dial-turner for your adjectives—it takes 'very' and cranks it up to eleven, whether you're talking about how hot the weather is or how much you hate your boss. It’s the go-to intensifier that spices up any sentence when you need to emphasize that something is seriously, undeniably intense.
- sinkie noun
A colloquial—and sometimes self-deprecating—way to refer to a Singaporean citizen. It has a slightly 'kancheong' or grumpy vibe attached to it, often used when locals are complaining about the cost of living or the typical Singaporean rat race.
- siol particle
Think of this as the ultimate 'bro' or 'man' but with a rougher, more street-smart edge. We tack it onto the end of a sentence to add serious emphasis, whether you're genuinely shocked, excited, or just being extra dramatic about how hot the weather is.
- somemore adverb
Used as a connector to pile on more evidence for your argument, especially when you're feeling a bit frustrated or exasperated. It’s the verbal equivalent of stacking an extra side of sambal onto your already spicy prata.
- song adjective
Describes that ultimate, top-tier feeling of pure satisfaction or comfort. Like biting into a perfectly crispy prata or finally settling into an air-conditioned room after walking under the noon sun—that's song.
- song bo phrase
Essentially asking 'are you having a good time?' or 'are you satisfied?'. It’s often used with a smirk when you’re teasing a friend who just got a massive advantage, or genuinely checking if someone is enjoying their plate of chicken rice.
- sotong noun
Literally a squid, but when you call someone this, you’re saying they’re blur like sotong. It’s for that friend who always stands in front of the MRT door while people are trying to exit, or forgets where they put their phone while it’s in their hand.
- strawberry generation noun
A slightly mean way to describe young people who seem a bit too delicate for the harsh realities of the working world. Just like the fruit, they look bright and attractive, but they bruise easily the moment they face any real pressure or 'heat'.
- stun like vegetable phrase
When your brain just power-cuts and you’re standing there with a blank expression, feeling absolutely useless or mind-blown. It’s what happens when someone drops a bombshell, and you physically cannot compute the next step, just like a kangkong left on the table.
- suaku adjective
The ultimate label for someone who is completely out of the loop and acts like they just stepped off a mountain into the city for the first time. It's that friend who has never heard of a basic local hack or looks at a simple hawker menu with pure, wide-eyed confusion.
- suka verb
To like, fancy, or feel an urge for something. It’s that spontaneous whim when you suddenly crave durian or decide you just 'suka' a certain vibe, often used to describe someone doing as they please without caring about rules.
- sure anot phrase
This is how you challenge someone when their story sounds a bit too good to be true or their claim is just wild. It’s like a playful, skeptical eyebrow raise in word form, asking, 'Are you seriously certain about that?'
- sure bo phrase
A classic way to call someone's bluff or express serious skepticism when they tell you something unbelievable. It’s like saying 'Are you for real?' but with that signature Singaporean hint of 'I don’t quite believe you, please confirm again.'
- sure got phrase
This is how we express absolute certainty that something exists or will happen. It’s the ultimate way to reassure someone that, yes, the solution or the item they're looking for is definitely out there.
- tahan verb
To tahan is to grit your teeth and endure whatever life throws at you, whether it's a super spicy chilli padi or a four-hour meeting that could've been an email. It’s that quiet, stoic patience you need when you're stuck in a crowded MRT train during peak hour and just praying for your stop to arrive.
- tai tai noun
A tai tai is that lady you see at the mall on a Tuesday afternoon looking perfectly manicured while everyone else is clocking in. She’s the queen of the high tea spread, living that life of leisure where the biggest concern is whether the hair salon can squeeze her into the 3:00 PM slot.
- tak boleh phrase
The ultimate way to say 'no way' or 'absolutely not.' It’s that firm boundary you set when a situation or a request is just completely impossible, unacceptable, or straight-up against the rules.
- tak boleh tahan phrase
This is your go-to phrase when things go past your limit, whether it’s the insane heat at noon, a colleague's nonsense, or a spicy sambal that is burning your soul. It’s the universal Singaporean way of saying, 'I literally cannot deal with this anymore.'
- talk cock verb
To spout absolute nonsense or engage in aimless, unverified chatter. It’s what your friend does when they think they’re a genius after two beers, or when someone is just wasting your time with empty promises.
- talk cock sing song phrase
To engage in absolutely aimless, nonsensical, or exaggerated chatter. It’s when you and your friends are just idling away at the kopitiam, spouting utter rubbish without a care in the world.
- throw face verb
To lose your dignity or suffer a major public embarrassment that makes you want to crawl into a hole. It's the social equivalent of tripping over your own feet while trying to act cool in front of your crush.
- tiba-tiba adverb
It’s that classic 'out of nowhere' moment when something happens without warning, usually accompanied by an eye roll. You use it when someone does something completely unprompted or weird as if they just had a glitch in their matrix.
- tolong verb
Technically means 'help,' but in the wild, it's mostly a cry for mercy. Use it genuinely when you need a hand, or sarcastically when a friend does something so ridiculous you can't even deal.
- tumpang verb
To hitch a ride, share a space, or piggyback on someone else's errand because they're already headed in your direction. It's the ultimate Singaporean life hack for efficiency; if a colleague is going for lunch, you definitely tumpang your order into theirs or 'tumpang' a lift to the nearest MRT.
- uncle noun
Technically just a male relative, but in Singapore, it's the catch-all title for any man older than you, whether he’s serving your chicken rice or fixing your laptop. Use it to be polite, or deploy it as an insult when someone is dressing or acting way too 'old-school'—like wearing tucked-in polo tees with high-waisted pants.
- wah exclamation
The ultimate multi-purpose exclamation. Use it when you’re genuinely impressed by a massive portion of chicken rice, or sarcastically when your friend shows up two hours late. It’s basically the Singlish version of 'wow' but with way more soul.
- wah lao exclamation
The ultimate Singaporean Swiss Army knife for your emotions. It functions like an 'OMG,' but with a bit more soul, used when you're shocked, annoyed, or just plain flabbergasted by someone's nonsense.
- wayang verb
Originally referring to traditional puppet or stage performances, we use this to call out someone being a total drama queen or putting on a fake show for the bosses. You know that colleague who only acts busy when the manager walks by? That is pure wayang, brother.
- where can phrase
A rhetorical way of saying 'no way' or 'in what world is that even possible.' We use it to call out someone for being unreasonable, kiasu, or just plain delusional. It’s the ultimate shut-down move without needing to raise your voice.
- where got phrase
The ultimate defensive retort used to deny a claim or accusation, especially when you're being teased about something obvious. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of rolling your eyes and saying 'as if'.
- where got can phrase
This is your go-to phrase when someone suggests something completely impossible or ridiculous. Think of it as a rhetorical slap to the face that asks, 'in what universe would that actually work?'
- where got time phrase
The classic Singaporean retort for when someone asks you to do something you’d rather not, or simply can’t fit into your jam-packed schedule. It’s not just about being busy; it’s a way of saying the task is a low priority or frankly, a bit of a waste of energy.
- whole kampung phrase
Refers to inviting or involving every single person in a group, often used when something gets out of hand or when everyone shows up uninvited. Think of it as bringing your entire squad, your extended family, and maybe even your neighbor’s cat just to be safe.
- why like that? phrase
The ultimate Singlish rhetorical question used when someone does something so baffling or frustrating that words just fail you. It is the verbal equivalent of a long, heavy head shake.
- xia suay adjective
This is the ultimate label for something or someone that brings serious shame or disgrace. You use this when someone does something so embarrassing it makes you want to hide under the hawker centre table.
- xiao mei mei noun
Literally 'little sister', but used in the wild to call any girl who looks young or acts a bit dainty. Sometimes it’s just a friendly way to address a cheery young lady at the bubble tea shop, but keep an eye on the tone; if you’re using it to describe someone acting 'too cute' or naive to get what they want, the vibes get a bit sarcastic.
- yam seng phrase
The ultimate ritual at a Singaporean wedding or celebration where everyone stands up, takes a deep breath, and shouts 'Yam Seng!' at the top of their lungs for as long as their oxygen allows. It's not just a toast; it's a test of lung capacity and community spirit meant to bring abundant luck and prosperity to the couple.
- yaya adjective
Describes someone who walks around like they own the place, acting cocky or full of themselves because they think they’re the hottest thing since sliced roti prata. Use this when your friend gets a tiny promotion and suddenly starts acting like a CEO.
- yaya papaya adjective
Describes someone who acts all high and mighty or thinks they are the king of the world when they really aren't. Usually used to describe that one friend who just got a new pair of shoes and suddenly acts like they're walking on a runway.
- zeh zeh noun
The go-to term for calling your elder sister, or any girl slightly older than you like a cousin or a friendly neighbour. It’s affectionate and carries that respectful familial warmth, so you don't sound like you're barking orders at her.
- zzz exclamation
More than just a nap, this is the ultimate sign of 'I cannot even right now.' Use it when you are totally unimpressed, bored to tears, or just completely fed up with someone's nonsense.